Guys and Gals, there are 4 Stages of Love, as i have formulated them. (Observational study;-) 2005-2006)
Stage 1 - First Contact.
Its the time when you first see or meet the person and like him/her.
Stage 2 - Denial.
When you are in love with the person, but you still deny it (yourself, to others and to the person as well).
Stage 3 - Acceptance.
After a brief period of sayin it cant be, you realize that you are in fact very deeply in love with the person.
Stage 4 - Adoration.
Well, the Golden period begins, and continues.... for eternity:)
{I know that there may be a lot of variations but the basic 4 stages remain, and ppl pass through them eventually. However Some might skip One of these stages every once in a while, but NEVER TWO STAGES..} Enjoy..
Thank you...
Regards,
Arsh.:)
WOW :O...this makes perfect sense!!..u had formulated this one?? genius!!! awesome ya..
ReplyDeletei can relate to it almost 100 %.. we all go through this .but one stage of particular interest to me is of denial..i have lived in that for loooong..in fact i have gone through that twice. (i know u will understand that better than anyone else) but i finally accepted it..in spite of all the things that went wrong. and now im waiting to enter the next stage of adoration again..it will take time n im ready to wait :) ...
just a little deviation here.. what happens when ppl live together for long enough to begin to take each other for granted?? i think relationships keep on going thru these stages forever. in a cyclical pattern.although with some variations.and every new cycle kind of overlaps on the previous one n in turn,the bonds get stronger n stronger.. :)
nice read arsh..great one :))
nams
Thanks nams:) yep. formulated this one long back...(its dated:))
ReplyDeleteyes i can understand what you mean to say.:) When people are together for a long time sometimes it might happen. But then they realize how precious the opposite person is to them. So its just a phase and it passes. And in the end, they are back in the cycle. Yes there are overlaps and they mean they do get to know something new about the person.. its a sweet realization:).
The repetition of cycle does create a kind of Overlap and also strengthens the relationship..
All the best to you...
And thanks again:)
Regards,
Arsh.